You Either Work Hard to Change Your Future, or Your Future Will Change—Just Not in a Way You Can Control

You Either Work Hard to Change Your Future, or Your Future Will Change—Just Not in a Way You Can Control

I realized a long time ago that it was imperative to change my life. Working a corporate job, being a mother, and spending time with my girlfriends and family wasn’t enough. I had grown so fed up with my job at the time, and with the support of outside influences, I walked away from a well-paying position. As a mother, I thought I had enough money to survive until I secured funding.

But reality hit hard. I found myself back in the workforce—this time with $9,000 worth of debt, no followers, no funding—just a dream.

I thought I had completely failed. I was working harder than ever before, only to find myself burned out, confused, lost, and in even more debt. And that wasn’t my last attempt either! Looking back on how far I’ve come, I’ve learned so much along the way.

The Power of Resilience

When you decide to do something, you must always have a plan. But sometimes, that "plan" doesn't work out, and that's okay. It’s not the end. There’s something special about a person who “fails” (by society’s standards) and still gets back up. Resilience, strength, confidence, and an unwavering belief in yourself are all you need.

We Manifested was created by women who realized that plans MUST be made—and while doing so, you MUST stay encouraged. It is never too late to start. And even when you think you’ve failed by society’s standards, remember: you don’t just plant a seed and expect it to grow overnight.

Growth requires sunlight, watering, pruning, and patience. You are growing. Your time is coming.

How to Recover from Life’s Difficulties

Here are a few tips you can use today to get back on track when life feels overwhelming:

  1. Remember Your Why.

    • Be honest with yourself—what is your real reason for wanting to improve your situation?

  2. Create a New Plan.

  3. Journal Your Feelings.

    • Writing things down helps process emotions. Get our free "Journal Page" at wemanifested.com.

  4. Practice Visualization & Manifestation Techniques.

    • Where do you want to be? What does it look like? How does it feel? Start seeing your future before it happens.

You Are Blooming

You are a flower. We are all flowers. And just like flowers, we require care, nourishment, and support from the world around us.

We Manifested has created tools to help you along this journey. Our undated planner page and blank journal page are available for you to download digitally—so you can start today.

Lastly, remember this: Love yourself always. Be intentional with your growth. Your time is coming.

With Love and Intention.

Co- Owner

 MamaWorkn <3

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